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Hilary Jiggins

Counsellor profile

Hilary Jiggins , BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - Relationships and family concerns

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About

  • CBT techniques
  • DBT skills
  • Client-centred work

About Hilary

Hilary Jiggins is a BACP-registered counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with 15 years of professional experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, relationship pain, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, grief and a wide range of other concerns that often affect life at home. Hilary aims to be straightforward about how therapy will run and to work alongside each person to find what helps.

Hilary uses a mix of evidence-informed and human-centred ways of working. She draws on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) skills training for practical tools to manage symptoms. She also offers client-centred and existential perspectives when a more reflective, meaning-focused approach is helpful.

Sessions can include active skill work such as mood monitoring, behavioural experiments or DBT-style skills practice. Hilary is open to using psychometric measures similar to those used in NHS settings if a client wants to track progress, but she will adapt tasks if traditional paperwork or homework does not suit someone.

If a longer-term, exploratory process is needed, she can move into more relational psychotherapy that looks at patterns from the past and how these show up now. She explains her thinking when suggesting approaches and asks clients what level of explanation or detail they want.

Hilary began in mental health group work with the charity Mind and later worked with organisations such as As You Are, Cruse Bereavement Care and Sussex Communities Development Association. She has experience with adults, groups, couples and young people and will refer on when a client’s needs are outside her scope.

How sessions work

How her approaches can work online

Hilary uses Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) skills training as part of her work. CBT focuses on identifying and testing thoughts and behaviours that keep problems going, which can help with anxiety, depression, panic and sleep issues. DBT skills offer practical techniques for managing strong emotions, improving distress tolerance and reducing unhelpful reactions.

She also uses a client-centred, relational stance when longer, exploratory therapy is helpful. That means the therapist and client decide together whether to focus on short-term symptom relief or on deeper patterns from the past. Finding the right mix is collaborative and may change over time as priorities shift.

The practical benefits of online sessions include fitting work around family life and day-to-day commitments and avoiding travel time. The profile does not specify session formats here, so check the online therapy options before booking to confirm how sessions are offered. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists often adapt tasks like skills practice or brief mood tracking so sessions can be slotted into a lunch break or evening routine.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementBipolar disorderDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCo-morbidityDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesGuilt and shameMidlife crisisObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, grief and many related concerns listed on her profile.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She combines practical, evidence-informed tools such as CBT and DBT skills with a human-centred, reflective approach when needed.

How much experience does she have?

She has 15 years of experience working in mental health settings, including charity-based group and counselling roles.

What credential and location are listed?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people from other countries work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions arranged and what do they cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is in danger, use the crisis numbers.

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