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Janet Nealer

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Janet Nealer, LCMFT

Maryland

LCMFT - Relationships and Parenting

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About

  • Attachment work
  • CBT techniques
  • Emotion-focused care

About Janet

Janet Nealer is a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist (LCMFT) in Maryland with 40 years of professional experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, relationship concerns, depression, addiction, parenting strain, sleep problems, anger, and self-esteem difficulties. She also lists work with LGBT issues and career concerns. Her approach is practical and grounded; she treats the person in front of her rather than a label.

She sees clients as the experts on their own story and draws on their strengths to move forward. Sessions focus on clear steps people can try between meetings. Conversations are steady and direct, aimed at sorting out patterns that keep problems repeating at home or at work.

Her clinical methods include attachment-based work, client-centered listening, cognitive behavioral techniques, emotionally-focused strategies, and existential conversations about meaning and choices. Those methods are used to address how early relationships affect current bonds, how thoughts influence mood, and how emotions shape behavior. She helps people identify small changes that make daily life easier.

Janet’s style is consistent and long-term. She has worked across many issues over four decades and combines practical techniques with reflective discussion. People preparing for sessions will find focused questions, attention to relationship patterns, and tools they can try between meetings.

To begin, readers are invited to use the directory matching steps to schedule a first appointment and see which session options fit their needs.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online sessions

Attachment-based work looks at how early bonds shape current relationships. Online sessions can use that approach to map interaction patterns and try new ways of relating in daily life. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing small behavioral changes. In remote sessions, CBT often involves clear homework, thought records, and brief skill practice between meetings.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss what feels useful and then try methods that match the client's aims. This is a collaborative process where techniques are adjusted based on how the client responds and what fits their goals and preferences.

Session format details should be confirmed before booking, as the listing does not specify formats. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions around parenting, work, and caregiving responsibilities. It can allow shorter check-ins, avoid travel time, and let people join from different locations when needed. Ask about the specific session options available when you schedule your first appointment.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodHypnotherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

40+ years

Listed in

Maryland

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of family or parenting concerns does she help with?

She lists parenting strain, blended family issues, communication problems, and caregiver stress among her focus areas. She works with individuals on challenges that affect home life.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style combines steady conversation with practical steps. She uses client-centered listening and techniques from attachment work and CBT to address patterns and behaviors.

How much experience does she bring?

She has 40 years of professional experience working with a wide range of concerns including trauma, anxiety, depression, and relationship issues.

What are her credentials and where is she licensed?

She holds LCMFT (Maryland), which is listed as her credential and place of licensure.

Does she offer sessions in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does accept international clients as noted in her profile.

How are costs handled for sessions?

Costs vary with location; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session through the platform.

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