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Nicola  Barker

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Nicola Barker, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - family and parenting concerns

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About

  • Client-centred therapy
  • EMDR approaches
  • Mindfulness techniques

About Nicola

Nicola Barker is a BACP accredited counsellor and psychotherapist based in the United Kingdom with 14 years of experience. She works with adults who are dealing with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship strain and other life changes. Nicola also supports people facing grief, sleep problems, anger, compassion fatigue and the effects of trauma and abuse.

She uses a client-centred way of working that focuses on each person’s concerns. Sessions are interactive and practical. Nicola describes working collaboratively to talk through problems and develop coping techniques that can be used between meetings.

Her background includes practices often used to help process distressing memories and to reduce anxiety, alongside mindful approaches and solution-focused work. Nicola also uses hypnotherapy in some cases to address unhelpful patterns and difficult feelings. She aims to match methods to what the person needs rather than offering a single fixed route.

People contact her for help with family-related stress, caring responsibilities and communication problems, as well as issues tied to ageing, chronic illness or disability. Nicola has experience with concerns such as panic, phobias, social anxiety, and the impacts of prejudice or past sexual assault.

Sessions are aimed at making day-to-day life a little easier and building practical ways to manage problems. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and book a first session to discuss their situation and priorities.

How sessions work

How Nicola’s approaches work in online sessions

Nicola uses client-centred work and EMDR-informed approaches alongside mindfulness and hypnotherapy options. Client-centred therapy focuses on listening and responding to what matters to the person, helping them make sense of difficulties and decide next steps. EMDR approaches involve structured attention to distressing memories and sensations to reduce their emotional impact and can be used for trauma-related problems.

Mindfulness therapy teaches simple attention and breathing skills to reduce anxiety and improve sleep. Hypnotherapy involves guided relaxation and focused attention to address persistent habits, unhelpful thoughts or strong emotional reactions. Each method is presented in plain terms and linked to the specific issue a person brings to sessions.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. Nicola will talk through options, try methods that seem helpful and adapt them according to the person’s goals and preferences. That collaborative process helps to shape session content and practical follow-up tasks.

Session logistics should be confirmed before booking because the biography does not list explicit formats. Online meetings can make it easier to fit therapy into everyday life, for example by avoiding travel, allowing shorter check-ins during a busy day or removing the need to be on camera for every session. Registered or accredited professionals commonly work this way to keep sessions focused on the person’s needs and progress.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefSleeping disordersAnger managementCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceIsolation / lonelinessMen's issuesPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPrejudice and discriminationSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)HypnotherapyMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship and family-related concerns, grief, sleep problems, anger and trauma-related issues.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her approach is client-centred and interactive, with practical coping techniques, mindful practices and solution-focused elements.

How much experience does she have?

She has 14 years of professional experience working with adults on a wide range of issues.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is BACP accredited and practices in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

International clients are accepted and sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

How are fees handled?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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