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Richard Gordon-Smith

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Richard Gordon-Smith , NCPS

United Kingdom

NCPS counsellor - Family and parenting focus

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About

  • Attachment-based work
  • CBT techniques
  • Emotion-focused therapy

About Richard

Richard Gordon-Smith is an NCPS counsellor based in the United Kingdom with 13 years' experience. He works with people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship and parenting concerns, low self-esteem, depression, addictions, grief and a wide range of other life difficulties. He speaks English and sees international clients.

Richard trained in psychology and completed an Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling at the University of Manchester. He has worked in mental health settings since then and uses a mix of approaches to support people who want practical help alongside reflective work.

In sessions he draws on person-centred work that listens to what matters to the individual. He also uses emotion-focused methods to help with intense feelings and attachment-based ideas when relationships are central to the difficulty. Cognitive behavioural techniques are used to spot thinking and behaviour patterns that keep problems going.

Richard describes his practice as integrative, combining psychodynamic thinking with solution-focused ways of planning change. That means conversations can look at past patterns while also setting clear steps to make life feel different now. He offers a non-judgemental space for people to talk through matters such as fatherhood issues, blended family tensions and communication problems.

Sessions commonly cover practical tools for sleep, eating and coping with change, and space to work through grief, trauma or intimacy-related concerns. The approach is down-to-earth and paced to the individual, with attention to both feeling and action.

How sessions work

How his therapeutic approaches translate to remote work

Attachment-based work focuses on the quality of relationships and how early patterns shape current connections. It helps when relationship difficulties, attachment issues or intimacy-related concerns are central to what someone brings. Client-centred work prioritises listening and the client's experience, giving room to talk things through and decide what matters next. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) looks at what people think and do day to day and offers simple strategies to change unhelpful patterns, useful for anxiety, sleep or mood problems.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the process. The therapist will work together with the client to identify goals and try methods that fit their needs and preferences. That might mean more reflective, psychodynamic discussion for some issues, or practical CBT tasks for others.

The biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions around family life, work breaks or travel. It can also allow shorter check-ins when needed and reduce the time spent travelling to appointments. Registered or accredited professionals, including counsellors and therapists, often use remote sessions to keep therapy manageable within everyday routines.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Psychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of family or parenting concerns does he support?

He helps people navigate parenting strain, blended family tensions, fatherhood issues and wider family problems.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He works in an integrative way, combining person-centred listening with emotion-focused, CBT and psychodynamic ideas.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has 13 years' experience working in mental health after completing an Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is listed with NCPS and practises from the United Kingdom.

Can I have sessions in a language other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

The biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are sessions paid for?

Cost varies with location and sessions are provided via a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session.

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