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Tom Lewis

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Tom Lewis, LPC

Missouri

LPC counselor - family and parenting related concerns

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About

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Emotionally-Focused Therapy

About Tom

Tom Lewis is an LPC (Licensed Professional Counselor) in Missouri with 30 years of clinical experience. He works with adults on stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy-related issues, parenting concerns, grief, depression, bipolar challenges, addictions, and career stress.

Tom takes a straightforward, conversational approach in sessions. He listens to a person's story and looks for strengths to build on. He uses several methods such as acceptance and commitment strategies, client-centered conversation, CBT, and emotionally focused ideas to address what is happening now and what a person wants to change.

Many clients contact him about family and parenting strain. He helps people sort through family of origin issues, fatherhood concerns, communication problems, divorce and separation, and caregiving stress. He also works with people dealing with codependency, commitment fears, control issues, and the emotional aftermath of infidelity.

Tom blends practical work with reflection. That might mean learning new behaviors, practicing different ways of talking with others, or trying mindfulness exercises to reduce anxiety. He pays attention to how patterns developed and where small changes could make daily life easier.

He also supports people facing loss, trauma, or long-standing feelings of emptiness and shame. His background includes work on compassion fatigue and coaching for career-related decisions. Sessions emphasize clear goals and steady steps rather than vague promises.

People who prefer English-language therapy can expect direct, experienced care focused on everyday problems at home and work. For details on session options and scheduling, follow the online therapy steps to complete the short questionnaire and book a first meeting.

How sessions work

How Tom Lewis uses therapeutic approaches online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then choosing actions that match personal values. It can help with anxiety, avoidance, and deciding what matters when life feels crowded with stress.

Client-Centered Therapy centers on open listening and developing a trusting conversation. It helps when someone needs space to sort out feelings about relationships, parenting, or career decisions by being heard and reflected back clearly.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors influence each other and uses practical exercises to change unhelpful patterns. It is commonly used for anxiety, depression, and changing reaction patterns in relationships.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. Tom will collaborate with the client to identify goals and try methods that fit the person’s needs and preferences. That may mean a few different tools at first until a steady plan is clear.

Confirm which session formats are offered before booking, since specific formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy routine - for example, shorter check-ins during a lunch break, sessions without travel time, or options that avoid being on camera if that feels better. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises, homework, and communication to suit everyday life while focusing on clear goals and steady progress.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesAnger managementBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Avoidant personalityCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismPersonality disordersProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Listed in

Missouri

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of family or parenting issues does he address?

He works with adults on parenting strain, fatherhood issues, family problems, family of origin matters, and caregiving stress.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses a conversational, client-centered approach and combines methods like ACT, CBT, and emotionally focused ideas to address practical concerns.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has 30 years of experience working with adults on a wide range of concerns including anxiety, depression, trauma, and addictions.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is an LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor, practicing in Missouri.

Can I work with him if I live outside the United States?

Sessions are offered in English and he is not currently accepting international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as specific formats are not listed here.

How is payment handled and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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