Therapist profile
Bonnie Define, LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor - Relationships and Parenting
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- Relationship support
- Parenting concerns
- Trauma-informed care
About Bonnie
Bonnie Define is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Missouri with 24 years of experience. She works with adults facing relationship strain, grief, intimacy concerns, depression, anxiety, stress, parenting challenges, and trauma and abuse. She also helps people with career questions, self-esteem issues, and compassion fatigue.
Bonnie approaches therapy in a straightforward, practical way. She draws on client-centered methods to listen and reflect what matters most to each person. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and solution-focused techniques are used when clients want clearer steps to change thoughts and behaviors.
She has a long history in varied settings, including inpatient and outpatient hospital care, nonprofit agencies, and private practice. That range means she is familiar with both crisis work and longer-term concerns. Clients who have experienced divorce, major life transitions, or medical and caregiver stress are among the issues she has addressed.
Trauma-focused and mindfulness approaches are available when healing from past hurts and learning stress management are priorities. Sessions typically look at patterns in relationships, coping strategies for daily life, and small, achievable goals to ease immediate strain. Bonnie aims to help people get practical relief and clearer perspective.
People considering therapy are invited to reach out to ask questions before scheduling. The next step is to review the online therapy options, complete a short matching questionnaire, and arrange a first session.
How sessions work
How Bonnie uses approaches online
Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and reflecting back what matters to the client. It helps people feel heard and clarifies what they want to work on. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and offers clear steps to shift unhelpful patterns. That approach is often used for anxiety, depression, and stress.Bonnie will collaborate with each person to decide which approach or mix of approaches fits best. She asks about immediate concerns, goals, and day-to-day realities, then suggests practical steps. Deciding what to try is a shared process and can change as needs evolve.
Session formats are not listed here, so please confirm the available online options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also allows for using mindfulness exercises and CBT homework between meetings to support steady progress.
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Experience
24+ years
Listed in
Missouri, Florida, Arizona
Languages
English
Questions
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of relationship issues does she address?
She works with adults on communication problems, commitment concerns, blended family challenges, and relationship strain.
What is her general approach in sessions?
Her style combines client-centered listening with practical techniques from CBT and solution-focused work to set small, actionable goals.
How much experience does she have working with grief and trauma?
She has 24 years of experience and has worked with people healing from divorce, traumatic life events, and other losses.
Where is she licensed and based?
She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Missouri and practices from that state.
In which language are sessions offered?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Session formats are not specified here; please confirm the current online and in-person options before booking.
How are fees handled?
Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the See online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a first session.
Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.
Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is in danger, use the crisis numbers.