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Nadir Mothojakan

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Nadir Mothojakan, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - family and parenting focus

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About

  • Grief and life changes
  • Anxiety and depression
  • Attachment issues

About Nadir

Nadir Mothojakan is a BACP-registered counsellor in the United Kingdom with 33 years of professional experience. He works with adults facing family and parenting stresses, grief, career shifts, anxiety, depression and the long-term effects of illness. He also supports people dealing with trauma, addictions, anger and issues around attachment and relationships.

He listens to experiences from childhood and adulthood, including workplace problems and unemployment. Sessions focus on helping people name their feelings and take practical steps to regain some control. Nadir emphasises clear boundaries, valid acknowledgement of stressful life events, and the chance to express feelings that may have been held back.

His approach draws on practical therapies such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy alongside attachment-informed and client-centred methods. He adapts what he uses to suit each person while keeping the work straightforward and goal-focused. Sessions aim to help with coping strategies, mood regulation, and clearer decision-making around relationships and parenting pressures.

Nadir also works with issues connected to adoption and foster care, abandonment, ageing, chronic illness and other complex challenges. He accepts international clients and offers online sessions; people should confirm current session options before booking. He uses a subscription model for sessions that can be cancelled at any time.

To start, people complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first appointment. That initial step helps identify priorities and whether the match feels right before further sessions are arranged.

How sessions work

How therapeutic approaches are used in online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) encourages people to notice difficult thoughts and feelings and then choose actions that match their values. It can help with depression, anxiety and life transitions by focusing on what matters rather than getting stuck on feelings. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings and behaviour and offers practical techniques to reduce anxiety, manage mood and change unhelpful habits. Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to patterns formed in close relationships and helps people understand how those patterns affect current family and parenting interactions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about their situation, goals and preferences, and agree on methods to try. This is a collaborative process and adjustments can be made if something does not feel useful.

The biography confirms Nadir offers online sessions, but does not list exact formats here, so please confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. They also let people join from different locations when international work is required. Registered or accredited professionals aim to match methods and scheduling to everyday routines so therapy can be practical and usable.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Family conflictsGriefCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Sexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

33+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of family issues does he help with?

He helps people manage family and parenting stresses, blended family issues, adoption and foster care concerns, and related relationship difficulties.

What style of therapy does he use?

Nadir uses a mix of approaches including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, attachment-informed work and client-centred methods to suit individual needs.

How long has he been practising?

He has 33 years of professional experience working with adults on grief, trauma, loss and life changes.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with him if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered to international clients in English.

What session formats are available?

The original biography states he offers online sessions; please confirm the current session options before booking.

How are sessions paid for?

Sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time and costs vary with location.

How do I begin working with him?

Start by selecting the See online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is in danger, use the crisis numbers.

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