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Steven Flanary

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Steven Flanary, LCSW

Idaho

Licensed Clinical Social Worker - Family and parenting concerns

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About

  • Attachment-based approaches
  • Cognitive behavioral work
  • DBT skills and strategies

About Steven

Steven Flanary is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Idaho with eight years of clinical experience. He works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, grief, parenting strains, and other life challenges. He also helps people dealing with relationship and intimacy concerns and practical problems like sleep and eating difficulties.

Steven uses a collaborative, client-centered approach. Sessions focus on clear goals the client chooses. He listens for how past attachments and current patterns shape problems. Then he offers tools from evidence-based methods to address thinking, emotion, and behavior.

In practice he mixes attachment-informed thinking with cognitive behavioral strategies and skills from dialectical behavior therapy. That combination targets unhelpful thoughts, emotional overwhelm, and recurring interaction patterns. He also draws on existential ideas to help people name what matters and find purposeful ways forward.

Steven has experience across outpatient care, telehealth, inpatient settings, and crisis support. That range informs how he balances short-term coping skills with deeper, longer-term work when needed. He encourages clients to set realistic steps and checks progress together.

People who come to him often want concrete ways to handle day-to-day strain at home or work. Sessions are practical and conversational. The aim is steady improvement in how someone thinks, feels, and acts in relationships and daily life.

How sessions work

How his approaches translate to online work

Steven often combines attachment-informed work with cognitive behavioral therapy. Attachment-based work looks at how past and current relationship patterns shape feelings and reactions. It helps with intimacy worries, communication problems, and patterns linked to abandonment or attachment issues. Cognitive behavioral therapy focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. It is useful for anxiety, depression, sleep or eating problems, and managing mood swings.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. He will collaborate with each person to decide which methods to use based on goals, daily demands, and how someone responds in early sessions. That means initial meetings are practical check-ins to set goals and try strategies together.

Specific session formats are not listed in the biography, so confirm the available online options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into busy family and work routines. They can allow shorter check-ins, avoid travel time, and let someone meet during a lunch break or between obligations. The focus is on usable skills and steady progress rather than lengthy theoretical discussion.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseBipolar disorderDepression

Also works with

Family conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Listed in

Idaho

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does he help with?

He works with adults on stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar symptoms, grief, parenting tensions, relationship and intimacy concerns, sleep and eating problems, and related challenges.

What is his general therapy style?

His style is collaborative and client-centered. He listens, helps set clear goals, and uses practical methods to address thoughts, emotions, and behavior.

How much experience does he have?

He has eight years of clinical experience across outpatient therapy, telehealth, inpatient mental health care, and crisis support.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, practicing in Idaho.

Can I see him if I live outside the United States?

Sessions are offered in English and he is not accepting international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as specific online or in-person formats are not listed here.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is in danger, use the crisis numbers.

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