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Victoria Wilkinson

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Victoria Wilkinson, NCPS

United Kingdom

Counsellor - family and parenting concerns

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About

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Parenting strain
  • ACT CBT DBT

About Victoria

Victoria Wilkinson is a counsellor registered with NCPS and has three years' experience. She works with adults in the United Kingdom on issues such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, self-esteem and the everyday pressures of parenting.

She helps people who are coping with life changes, grief, trauma and abuse, and those dealing with addiction or compassion fatigue. Victoria also supports people navigating intimacy-related concerns, body image and eating or sleeping difficulties. She works with clients who identify as LGBT and those coping with ADHD or bipolar when these are part of their wider concerns.

Her way of working is straightforward and person-focused. Sessions are conversational and aim to clarify what feels difficult right now. She draws on practical approaches to spot unhelpful patterns and to try small changes that make day-to-day life easier.

Victoria uses methods such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Attachment-Based ideas. She also includes Client-Centred and Dialectical Behavior Therapy techniques where these fit a person's needs. The emphasis is on finding useful tools rather than on labels.

People who come to her often want help with parenting strain, blended family issues, adoption and foster care matters, or with caring responsibilities. She invites prospective clients to complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session to see how her style fits their situation.

How sessions work

How therapeutic approaches are used in online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, often called ACT, encourages people to notice painful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It helps with anxiety, low mood and adjusting to life changes by focusing on what matters and small committed actions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy or CBT looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and offers practical strategies to change patterns that maintain distress.

Attachment-Based ideas focus on how early relationships influence current ways of relating to others and to oneself. This can be helpful for people wrestling with intimacy, abandonment, or caregiving stresses. Victoria aims to work together with each client to identify which approach or mix of approaches fits their goals and situation. She treats this as a collaborative process and will adjust methods as the work develops.

The exact session formats for Victoria are not listed here, so please confirm the options available before booking. In general, online work can make it easier to fit sessions around parenting, work and other commitments. It can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove the need to be on camera if that helps someone engage. Registered or accredited professionals use online sessions to maintain regular contact and build progress without requiring travel.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyImago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of family or parenting concerns does she support?

She helps people with parenting strain, blended family issues, adoption and foster care questions, and family-related stress.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She uses a conversational, person-focused approach that looks for practical steps to change unhelpful patterns.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has three years' experience working as a counsellor with adults in the United Kingdom.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with NCPS and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be held in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Session cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is in danger, use the crisis numbers.

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